When I feel ignored

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It makes me want to do stupid things.
It makes me not want to be cuddly and nice even when it is me who is making the problem worse
It makes it really easy to say things I shouldn’t.

And the horrible thing is I really feel those stupid things, I don’t just say them to get a rise out of you.

I’m not the most submissive person in the world but I respond well to positive reenforcement.
When you tell me you miss me or you love me or you’re proud of me I go about ten million extra miles to keep that kind of verbal praise coming. And it isn’t just words to me.

If I feel loved I’m less inclined to be jealous.
I’m more inclined to be generous and playful and adventurous.

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