I used to be devastated over lost relationships, until one Master told me, “Little Deka, there is no reason to be upset. You had a chance to share some time with a lovely person, but that time has ended, like a chapter in a book. It adds to the story, but it doesn’t make it the end. So be thankful for the time you had, and realize there is far more greater things, and people to meet and be with in the coming chapters of your life”
It was the best advice I ever had. Ever since then, I never cried over lost relationships, because I was just grateful to have shared part of my life with them. I do miss it sometimes, but I am never angry. When Needs don’t match up, it is best to let go, on happy terms.