D/s Contract

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My friend took some templates and made it a really good one, that is very thorough. You basically just fill it in. Also, he allowed me to post it here to share. Enjoy!

 

~ * ~ * ~ * The Dominant / Submissive Contract * ~ * ~ * ~
This Contract recognizes between both parties listed below, of their obligations and duties, both consented willingfully upon, to administer and carry out. This Contract will be legally recognized amongst proper Soverignty and/or Government in which the lands it henceforth takes. These names listed below have agreed to the terms and conditions within and of the COntract, and cannot be breached unless properly performed as the contract states. The true names of the individuals are not required, but encouraged, for the Contract’s ratification. The ymay choose to use solely the names Given by the Dominant and Submissive. However names Given listed below will be their recognized names amongst the Dominant / Submissive Relationship.

1.
2.
(More names are optional, just list after the second line.)

Within this Contract and Document lies the expectations, obligations, rules, and punishments associated with the Dominant and Submissive Relationship, and its participants. This is a binding agreement of the partrticipents listed above. With this Document and Contract lies a guideline of the partipants behaviors within the Contract, and should be duely noted that this contract in any way is to benefit the Dominant, but also give a firm hand when necessary, along with wisdom and guidance followed by these Laws, that shall beneift the Submissive’s interests. The nature and evolution of this contract will be agreed upon and ratified by the participants listed above, and no single participant shall make amendments without a consensus.

~ + ~ + ~ + ~ TABLE OF CONTENTS ~ + ~ + ~ + ~
I.) Amendments of the Contract
II.) Submissive’s Affirmations and Commitments
III.) Dominant’s Affirmations and Commitments
IV.) Submissive’s Role
V.) Dominant’s Role
VI.) Punishments
VII.) Corrections Involving Punishments
VIII.) Rules of Conduct
IX.) House Rules
X.) Hard and Special Limits

I.) Amendments of the Contract
Here lies the Contract’s ratified amendments, agreed upon the participants of the Contract. All Amendments must be agreed upon by the participents and within attendence of the Witness to sign and recognize. Each new Amendment must be written and attached to this Amendment Section of the Contract, with all signatures and dates signed. Any impartial Aemendments will be forefeited.
~ ^ ~ ^ ~ ^ Amendments Ratified ^ ~ ^ ~^ ~
1. (Amendment Name)
(Amendment Description)

Dominant’s Signature: ________________________________________
Submissive’s Signature: ________________________________________
Witness Signature & Date: ________________________________________
(MM/DD/YYYY): ____________________

II.) Submissive’s Affirmations and Commitments
(List right here the Affirmations and Commitments the Submissive Participants invloved here, or attach a sheet of paper typed and properly written out on this sheet.)

Listed above are the stated intentions that the Submissive Participants Involved have declared they will uphold and be obligated too by Honor and Law of the Contract. Breaching such words makes this Contract Null and Voided upon offense(s), or to the Dominant or Dominants’ Involved discretion.

III.) Dominant’s Affirmations and Commitments
(List right here the Affirmations and Commitments the Submissive Participants involved here, or attach a sheet of paper typed and properly written out on this sheet.)

Listed above are the stated intentions that the Dominant Participants Involved have declared they will uphold and be obligated too by Honor and Law of the Contract. Breaching such words makes this Contract Null and Voided upon offense(s), or to the Submissive, or Submissive Participants Involved.

IV.) Submissive’s Role
The Submissive Participants Role within this stated Contract are as follows:
The Submissive will be required to act professionally and pleasantly in private and in public. He or she is expected to display proper form of linguistic performance, and demeanor amongst Guests and other Dominants.
The Submissive is to act and adhere to the Dominant or, Dominant’s Involved, words as if they are Law, and without impunity or displeasure, as long as the Law doesn’t compromise the Hard Limits and/or Special Limits of the Submissive, or Submissive’s Involved.
The Submissive will dress appropriately amongst Guests and in any Public venue. The Submissive will adhere to proper dress codes listed from the House Rules of the Dominant, or Dominant’s Involved, as long as the Law doesn’t compromise the Hard Limits and/or Special Limits of the Submissive, or Submissive’s Involved.
The Submissive will only refer to all Males, or those associated to such Gender, as “Sir”. The Submissive will refer to all Females, or those associated to such Gender, as “Ma’am” in confirmation responses, “Lady”, “Miss”, or “Mistress”.
The Submissive will not directly command things of the Dominant or Dominants Involved of his or her Ownership, instead only indirectly imply or suggest things of such said natures.
The Submissive’s role is to support and facilitate to his or her’s Dominant or Dominant’s Involved needs and tasks without hesitation or conviction, as long as the task doesn’t compromise the Hard Limits and/or Special Limits of the Submissive, or Submissive’s Involved.
The Submissive is obligated and expcted to adhere to the Dominant or Dominant’s Involved punishments without scrutiny or agression, as long as the punishment doesn’t compromise the Hard Limits and/or Special Limits of the Submissive, or Submissive’s Involved.
In the event the Submissive owned by his or her’s Dominant or Dominants Involed desire to engage in any “play”, or otherwise sexual activity, will be required to engage open comminication regarding the Hard and Aoft Limits of eachother first, along with providing a “Safe Word” for anything considered hardcore or extreme by normal parameters. The “Safe Word” provided it to effectively communicate whether to continue or end a play scene of extreme measures. Both the Submissive and his or her’s Domiannt or Dominants involved will immediately end and adhere to this “Safe, Sane and Consensual” form of verbal and documented agreement outlined in this section of the documented Contract. Any breach of using these methods will forfeit this Contract immeditaely and place it under review of a Witness and the Participants Involved and stated within the beginning of the Contract.

Listed above are the expectations and obligations the participants above have agreed to, and will bound by Honor and Law of the Contract, administer the nature and duties of the Contract, effective immeditaely upon signature and confirmation of the Witnesses in attendence. There must alays be at leats a Witness of legal age of maturity withing the Soverignty of Residence to sign and confirm and recognize the witnessing of this Contract, or see it forfeited.

V.) Dominant’s Role
The Dominant’s Role withi nthe stated Contract are as follows:
The Dominant or Dominants Involved are to act with professional and politely withing public venues, according to and obiding to the House Rules of the Soverignty, and /or Venue. They must remember to be formal when necessary occasion calls for it.
The Dominant or Dominants Involved are to adhere to guidelines and rules of other Houses and Venues with complete obedience and diligence.
The Dominant or Dominants Involved is to perform with respect for other People’s Beliefs and Opinions, know that not everyone may share their principles or ideals.
The Dominant or Dominants Involved is to be responsible for everything and anything of which the Submissive’s he or she owns within their Collar.
The Dominant or Dominants Involved is responsible for any Apprentices they are Mentoring.
The Dominant or Dominants Involved will answer to proper protocol when it coems to addressing others that are Dominant or Submissive, by their titles and names,
The Dominant or Dominants Involved are to facilitae the resposnibilities of educating, mentoring, and guiding all Submissives under their Ownership. They must adhere to Hard and special Limis requested in a List of them above, Stated under the Affirmations and Commitments. Failure to do so will forfeit the Contract, or an agreement of boh parties is reached and filed under as an Amendment.
In the event the Dominant or Dominants Involed desire to engage in any “play”, or otherwise sexual activity with their Submussive or Submissive Participants, will be required to engage open comminication regarding the Hard and Soft Limits of eachother first, along with providing a “Safe Word” for anything considered hardcore or extreme by normal parameters. The “Safe Word” provided it to effectively communicate whether to continue or end a play scene of extreme measures. Both the Submissive and his or her’s Domiannt or Dominants involved will immediately end and adhere to this “Safe, Sane and Consensual” form of verbal and documented agreement outlined in this section of the documented Contract. Any breach of using these methods will forfeit this Contract immeditaely and place it under review of a Witness and the Participants Involved and stated within the beginning of the Contract.

VI.) Punishments

Punishments within the Contract, and listed below, are enforceable by the Dominant or Dominants Involved. If the Dominant or Dominants Involved agree to have another designated person to deliver punishments to a Submissive or Submissive Participants, all parties involved must agree to the person being appointed, in he absence of the dominant or Dominants Involved.

Designated Person of Punishment Giving: _______________________________________
Approved by all Parties? : __________
Witness Signature & Date: _______________________________________ (Date): __________

Punishments will likely vary with each Submissive or Submissive Participants, therefore documenting punishments for each Submissive is required, and stated below:

(Place a document attached to this Contract, or type in the Submissive or Submissive Participants, each, of their Punishments, should they break from heir duties.)

VII.) Corrections Involving Punishments

In the event that corrections are needed in enforcing the punishments involving the Submissive, or Submissives Participants, the Dominant in Ownership of the Submissive must enforce the correction punihshment immediately, or within the next available time set. If the Dominant in Ownership isn’t around to administer the correction punishment, then the appointed person of punishment must administer the punishment protocols listed above in Section Six.

Each correction to a punishment will likely vary with the Submisisve, or Submissives Involved. Therefore the corrections to such said behaviors will need to be outlined on a seperate sheet of paper and attached to this document. In most standards the Dominant, or Dominants Involved determine the best course of actions in correcting their Submissive, or Submissive Participants. The Punishments will stil ladhere to the Hard and Special Limits of each Submissive, or Submissive Participants. Failure to do so will result in nullification of the Contract, or review of the COntract for amendment. No Amendment of the Contract is official without the approval of the Dominant, or Dominants Involved, and the Submissive, or Submissive Participants, and the Witnesses signature and date of the amendment.
(Place the sheet of paper here, or type, of the corrections to punishments for the Submissive, or Submissive participants.)

VIII.) Rules of Conduct

As per stated in this Contract, is a listed set of Conditions that personally affect all of the Submissive, or Submissive Participants. These are the Dominant’s personal expectations and disclaimers that he or she wishes to add to the Contract. These personal expectations and disclaimers are to be adhered by the Submissive, or Submissive Participants, as if they were apart of their Roles in Section Four. These Conditions are to adhere to the Hard and Special limits of the Submissive, or Submissive Participants.

(Place an attachment sheet of the personal set of conditions the Dominant, or Dominants Involved, in this section.)

IX.) House Rules

As per stated in this Contract, a list of House Rules that are to be followed within the dwelling of the Dominant, or Dominant’s Involved, for all residents and visiting guests to the House in which the Dominant, or Dominant’s Invlved reside. If the Dominant, or Dominants Involved, live in separate homes, each of those Homes need to have a listed set of rules to adhere to and follow. Listed below will be the Houses involved with the Dominant and Submissives Involved within this Contract:

Main House: (Dominant’s Home)
Secondary House: (Submsisive’s Home)
Additional Houses:
House #3:
House #4:
House #5:

(Place an attachment sheet, or type, of the House Rules for each home here.)

X.) Hard and Special Limits

As per stated in this Contract, is a list of “Hard” and ‘special” Limits, both or all Dominants and Submissives. These are the definite lists of what he or she can and cannot do. Everyone involved in this Contract must adhere to these set lists, or have this Contract nullified. These set “Hard” and “Special” Limits will be considered apart of the Dominant and Submissive’s Roles, and House Rules of this Contract. Listed below are these Limits of all involved within the Contract:

(Place an Attachment Sheet of all the Hard and Special Limits of the Dominants and Submissives of the Contract, or type them out here.)

Dominant(s) Name & Signature:
1.
Sign Here: ________________________________________

Submissive(s) Name & Signature:
1.
Sign Here: ________________________________________

Witness Name & Signature:
1.
Sign Here: ________________________________________
Date of Ratification: (MM / DD / YYYY )

The Names listed above here have confirmed and recognize the ratification of the Doucment and Contract between the Participants listed above. This Contract will go immeditely into effect once the date and signatures of all participants, plus the witness involved, have been collected.

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6 thoughts on “D/s Contract

  1. “This Contract will be legally recognized amongst proper Soverignty and/or Government in which the lands it henceforth takes. ”

    Not likely. And that’s not considering the typo there.

    And honestly, I don’t like these pseudo-legal contracts. They sound pretty ridiculous, especially as both parties know that the other one can simply stand up and walk away because the contract is legally worthless.

  2. We’ve not got a contract. We have a book, filled with statements that express our responsibilities to each other. The book has changed and evolved – but it has been pretty static for the last couple of years.So maybe it is, now, close to a contract.

    Of course it can never have force of law. But neither of us would want that. It has the force of love and persists as long as that exists.

    These day’s, it is pretty much summed up by this anyway:

    http://belasarius.com/2013/11/17/matched-pair-9-indelible-marker/

      • It isn’t that sweet and romanti., basically each time we have implemented a rule or ritual and it has become a permanent part of our dynamic it is recorded in the book.

        Having it in black and white helps both of us – even though most of it is pretty ingrained by now.

        What might be a bit slushy is that each rule is written as an haiku.

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